Christian girls guide dating
Maybe you want a solid, godly relationship but you’re feeling a little discouraged.The dating culture is just so crazy and it seems like all the good ones are taken!Or maybe you are in a relationship but it’s a little rocky. I mean, you want to, but you don’t even know where to start. It seems like more people hang out in the land of “it’s complicated” instead of in clarity.Or perhaps you are dating someone wonderful but noticing that it’s getting harder and harder to navigate the modern dating world (especially as a Christian). But don’t you deserve confidence and clarity more than confusion and insecurity?I know that it’s getting harder and harder to know what’s okay and what’s even considered dating now days. I want to share five tips for dating from my husband’s perspective that will hopefully encourage you: Guys don’t mind a little venting now and then, we all have our bad days!
When a woman respects herself and her love for the Lord shines, it makes her 10x more attractive.
We don’t care if your hair looks perfect or if you think that dress makes you look fat.
Guys can appreciate when a woman puts in a little effort to look nice but if you’re constantly looking in the mirror or being vain about how your hair looks, it’s a major turn off. If you don’t know how he feels or where the relationship his headed, ask!
don’t play into the dumb games by not asking where you stand just because you’re afraid you might not get the response you hope for.
If he’s leading you on or acting like you’re dating but unwilling to commit, you only affirm that it’s okay if you just go along with it and that doesn’t make the problem any better. But if it’s the other way around and you can’t give him a straight answer, if you’re playing games or unwilling to be honest, don’t be surprised if you get dropped.Eye contact shows respect, interest, confidence, and intentionality.Talk about the hard things early on instead of just saying, “we’ll cross that bridge when we get to it.” That doesn’t mean be clingy or overly serious on the second date. But do look him in the eye and be intentional discussing important things before you get too serious.If he’s not man enough to handle your intentionality, he’s not man enough to handle a woman of character and confidence. “But the wisdom from above is first of all pure (undefiled); then it is peace-loving, courteous (considerate, gentle).