American girl dating turkish man
Okay, I'm just going to fess up and say it: I slept with that Turkish-American guy I met on our 3rd date. Not a mistake in that I didn't want for it to happen, not a mistake because I feel any shame, and definitely not a mistake because I did enjoy it. But my experience with Turkish men has always been this way. THURSDAY: So we were at my place after having dinner together and one thing led to another. He called me when he got home from work and our conversation just felt different (in a bad way). That was last weekend and we did not speak or email each other at all.
If I could turn back the clock, I would have held off. He was even making plan for us to go on a week long vacation this month. Never, EVER, talk about the future in that way when you first meet someone. It was almost like he was thinking "okay, I had her, now I don't need to pursue her as hard". He emailed me at work and said that he was running behind schedule and would be a little later than usual. But truthfully I was exhausted from the work week, so I cancelled our plans.
We talked and emailed each other everyday and started making plans for things far, far down the road, like New Years Eve. FRIDAY: We had plans to have dinner again and perhaps head over to his place.
They immediately stake their claim if they are interested in you or they'll blow you off rather quickly if they are not interested. So I asked him if he was okay and he simply said that he had a few drinks after work and was just feeling mellow. I woke up on Saturday morning with a really bad feeling again and emailed him saying that I would like for us to just be friends and that we were not a good match for each other. He immediately emailed me back and said that he was "surprised" and wish me luck too. I figured what's done is done and it's time to move on.
But last night I forwarded a GROUP email to friends and family and his email address was still hanging around, so he got the email as well.
I was surpised this morning by his email to me saying "can a guy and a girl still be friends after they have been intimate?
I recently spent 11 eternal days in Alanya, Turkey, a resort that is two hours away by bus from Antalya.
Unfortunately for me, the trip was worse than my previous European summer excursions to Hvar, Croatia, and Odessa.